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Keep your hands open, and all the sands of the desert can pass through them. Close them, and all you can feel is a bit of grit.: Taisen Deshimaru
In the beginner's mind there are many possibilities, but in the expert's there are few.: Shunryu Suzuki
There are always possibilities.: Mr Spock - Star Trek
"No, no!" said the Queen. "Sentence first - verdict afterwards.": Lewis Carroll
If a man will begin with certainties he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts he shall end in certainties.: Francis Bacon
Whenever you find you are on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect.: Mark Twain
The voyage of discovery lies not in seeking new horizons, but in seeing with new eyes.: Marcel Proust
You cannot depend on your eyes when your imagination is out of focus.: Mark Twain

No one knows what he can do till he tries.: Publilius Syrus
You may be disappointed if you fail, but you are doomed if you don't try.: Beverley Sills
Better to fail at doing the right thing than to succeed at doing the wrong thing.: Guy Kawasaki
Don't let what you cannot do interfere with what you can do.: John Wooden
Think of what you have rather than of what you lack. Of the things you have, select the best and then reflect how eagerly you would have sought them if you did not have them.: Marcus Aurelius
Given the choice between changing one's mind and proving that change is not necessary, most people get busy on the proof.: Professor John Kenneth Galbraith
God, grant me serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.: Reinhold Niebuhr
Change and pain are part of life, but suffering is optional.: Anonymous
You can never plan the future by the past.: Edmund Burke
It is never too late to become what you might have been.: George Elliot
Though no one can go back and make a brand new start, anyone can start from now and make a brand new ending.: Carl Bard
The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy.: Dr Martin Luther King Jr
Sometimes problems are maintained simply by the fact that people think and talk about them excessively.: Furman
We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy is when men are afraid of the light.: Plato
The only thing necessary for the triumph of evil is for good men to do nothing.: Edmund Burke
The world is a dangerous place to live, not because of the people who are evil, but because of the people who don't do anything about it.: Albert Einstein
We avoid the things that we're afraid of because we think there will be dire consequences if we confront them. But the truly dire consequences in our lives come from avoiding things that we need to learn about or discover.: Shakti Gawain

Before you call me difficult, try wearing my shoes.: Egyptian proverb
When finger point at moon, don't look at finger or you'll miss the moon.: Bruce Lee - Enter the Dragon
There is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so.: Shakespeare
We see things not as they are, but as we are.: H M Tomlinson
The pessimist sees difficulty in every opportunity. The optimist sees opportunity in every difficulty.: Winston Churchill
Belief sickens, belief kills, belief heals.: Robert Hahn
People are generally better persuaded by the reasons which they have themselves discovered than by those which have come into the minds of others.: Pascal
Stability is an illusion created by the memory of an instant.: Buddhist saying
Life is a comedy for those who think and a tragedy for those who feel.: Horace Walpole
Experience is not what happens to you - it's how you interpret what happens to you.: Aldous Huxley
Psychological stress is as much a function of how we see the world as how the world really is.: Dr Paul Martin
I know that most men, including those at ease with problems of the greatest complexity, can seldom accept even the simplest and most obvious truth if it be such as would oblige them to admit the falsity of conclusions which they have delighted in explaining to their colleagues, which they have proudly taught to others, and which they have woven, thread by thread, into the fabric of their lives.: Leo Tolstoy

Counterfeiters exist because there is such a thing as real gold.: Rumi
Until lions have their historians, tales of hunting will always glorify the hunter.: African proverb
Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever.: Mahatma Gandhi
No one can make you feel inferior without your consent.: Eleanor Roosevelt
How much pain have cost us the evils which have never happened.: Thomas Jefferson
Generous people are rarely mentally ill.: Dr K Menninger
No one is useless in this world who lightens the burden of another.: Charles Dickens
The biggest problem in the world could have been solved when it was small.: Lao Tse
Life is never fair. And perhaps it is a good thing for most of us that it is not.: Oscar Wilde
Always remember you're unique. Just like everyone else.: Anonymous
Anyone can become angry - that is easy. But to be angry with the right person, to the right degree, at the right time, for the right purpose, and in the right way - this is not easy.: Aristotle
The close stitching of mind to body means that each communicates its fortunes to the other.: Montaigne
Our genetic heritage endows each of us with a series of emotional set-points that determines our temperament. But the brain circuitry involved is extraordinarily malleable; temperament is not destiny.: Daniel Goleman
What ails the truth is that it is mainly uncomfortable, and often dull. The human mind seeks something more amusing, and often caressing.: H L Mencken
There is nothing more frightful than ignorance in action.: Goethe
Carefully watch your thoughts, for they become your words. Manage and watch your words, for they will become your actions. Consider and judge your actions, for they have become your habits. Acknowledge and watch your habits, for they shall become your values. Understand and embrace your values, for they become your destiny.: Mahatma Gandhi
Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterward.: Chinese Proverb
Experience is that marvelous thing that enables you recognize a mistake when you make it again.: F P Jones
To live content with small means; to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion; to be worthy, not respectable, and wealthy, not, rich; to listen to stars and birds, babes and sages, with open heart; to study hard; to think quietly, act frankly, talk gently, await occasions, hurry never; in a word, to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the common - this is my symphony.: William Henry Channing

Therapy is often a matter of tipping the first domino.: Milton H Erickson
Do not become the slave of your model.: Vincent van Gogh
[Psychotherapy] is an unidentified technique applied to unspecified problems with unpredictable outcomes. For this technique we recommend rigorous training.: V C Raimy
People do not come into therapy to change their past but their future.: Milton H Erickson
Emphasis should be placed more on what the patient does in the present and will do in the future than on a mere understanding of why some long-past event occurred.: Milton H Erickson
It is more important to know the person who has the disease than it is to know the disease the person has.: Sir William Ostler
Some patients, though conscious that their condition is perilous, recover their health simply through their contentment with the goodness of the physician.: Hippocrates
Despite the achievements of the last century, orthodox medical practice, unlike the scientific disciplines on which it is founded, remains by and large a matter of observation, opinion and experience. A knowledge of the wrong turnings of the past is essential if the doctor of today is not to be arrogant in his overestimation of his powers.: Roberto Margotta
As artists and traders in medieval cities began to form organizations, they instituted tough initiation ceremonies. Journeymen in Bergen, Norway, were shoved down a chimney, thrown three times into the sea, and soundly whipped. Such rites made belonging to the guild or corporation more precious to those who were accepted, and survived.: Isaac Asimov


Contents Keeping an open mind Motivation and change Beliefs and viewpoints Observations on life The craft of therapy Useful links		Therapeutic quotations "... Good words. That's where ideas begin." from Star Trek II: The Wrath of Khan It is remarkable how a few well-chosen words can capture the essence of a situation, challenge our thinking and inspire us to change for the better. This collection of quotations can help clients, therapists and anyone else contemplating therapeutic change. Please contact us if a quotation is inaccurate or wrongly attributed, or if you have any suggestions to add to the collection.